A mirror to our own failings?

Yet another NRL/AFL/Super 14 season descends upon us blighted by numerous scandals involving young footballers running amok. Predictably this is followed by another outpouring of public outrage at the actions of these highly paid professionals crossing so-called moral boundaries. It gives me reason to pause and consider the spotlight we place on these young footballers and the expectation we put upon them to be ‘role models”. Do we not all know of friends, relatives, children and nephews that indulge in similar behaviour without the full force of society’s outraged being pressed upon them? Yet we expect the best of men who have often been pulled directly out of high school, given a pay packet many times that of their peers and an abundance of time with little to occupy them? We expect something from these men because they have been assigned the roles of “hero” in our society. These days there is a growing shortage of genuine heroes in many of the major institutions of our society. Who is there to inspire honour and emulate in some of our major institutions? In politics the debate seems to focus upon the lies told by our leaders, the broken promises and the influence of major companies and interest groups. Where are the Wilberforces that doggedly sought after legislative change in the abolishment of the slave trade? The institution of the church has been diluted by frequent scandal involving sexual and financial abuse and a growing lack of clarity in its message. Where are the great inspirational leaders such as Jesus Christ, whose teachings have shaped the world for the past 2000 years? Where are the heroes like Luther that railed against the abuses of the church from within or the Wesleys that would inspire large crowds through the power of their oratory and the sacrificial example of their life? Are there any religious leaders of today that will inspire movies in the future? Even our military heroes are besmirched by fighting wars of dubious distinction. So is it any wonder that we’ve grown to put on a pedestal those of excellence in the arena of athletic endeavour? The sporting field is one of the few places we can point out to our children to and show them the benefits of discipline, work ethic, team work and the rewards of excellence. But here’s the catch. We want our heroes to be without flaw. Whilst most of us admire Shane Warne for his immense skill in leg spin bowling we generally loathe him as a person (even more so if he wasn’t “one of us”). In League we applaud the on field exploits of Mason and Sonny Bill Williams but we hold no real affection for them because their flaws as human beings have been put in the spotlight for all to see. Yet we probably all have acquaintances that frequent brothels, or go on drinking binges, or who give each other’s rumps the odd squeeze or, dare I say it, the odd finger poking. Quite a few of us would view their actions as unfortunate or damaging, but generally their actions are written off as “their choice” or part of the rites of passage of growing up as a male. However, should a group of football players of the same age and demographic indulge in exactly the same form of behaviour they’re exposed to torrents of public hysteria, shock horror and outrage! Don’t get me wrong. I’m not trying to excuse the behaviour. However, spend time in any university during orientation week and you’ll hear the messages of hedonism, promiscuity and indulgence. Every weekend you’ll rub shoulders with patrons in nite clubs drunk or high and will quite likely defend their right to a “good night out” So why exactly are we shocked when these messages manifest themselves in our young men in these sporting competitions? I contend that is we who have placed these men on a pedestal because of our need for heroes to emulate. Their sole qualification is the ability to play a high octane and brutal contact sport. Often they are placed there without adequate preparation and support. The virulence of our reaction betrays the fact that their inevitable fall is reviled only because it holds up a mirror and reflects back to us much of our own society that is decaying and reprehensible.

SMH - Where is thine mercy?

I am outraged by the bucket job the Sydney Morning Herald has done on Mercy Ministries. By “bucket job” I mean quite literally the bucket of toxic, raw sewage that this so-called “distinguished broadsheet” has dumped on a nationwide ministry to vulnerable women. http://www.smh.com.au/news/national/they-prayed-to-cast-satan-from-my-body/2008/03/16/1205602195122.html While I don't agree with all of their methods, I certainly don't think they deserve to be treated in the way they were yesterday and today - to the point where several major corporate sponsors have said they are considering withdrawing their monetary support for the ministry. http://www.smh.com.au/news/national/corporates-move-quickly-to-cut-ties/2008/03/17/1205602293122.html (*disclaimer disclaimer) My sister is heavily involved in Mercy Ministries. She had to do 2 years of intensive training to be of any use to them. I think many of you will have read about her trip to Zimbabwe that is partly inspired by the kind of program and ministry Mercy has with the sexually abused, pregnant teens etc. Read her updates and judge for yourself. http://interact.cornerstone.edu.au/forum_viewtopic.php?30.4908 What makes me angry is that the SMH finds two disaffected people who have not been in the program for 3 years - and build their case entirely around their allegations. No attempt seems to have been made to find the many hundreds of women that have found the program to be life-transforming. No attempt is made to cynically question the claims made by the two women (who are quite likely to have mental issues of their own if they were in the program in the first place). At the very least you would describe this as "sloppy" journalism. But it's not that, because surely no journalist could possibly be so incompetent. No, this is a callous and calculated attack. The fact that there are currently up to a hundred young girls in care who may not know where next week's meal and care will come from because of the withdrawal of corporate support must surely heap like burning coals on the heads of all involved in this sorry little episode.